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Relationship Therapy

At Intentional Living, Dr. Terracciano provides the following services:

  • Relationship therapy for couples, parent-child dyads, friendships, and other types of relationships
  • "Getting the Love You Want" weekend workshop for couples

About Imago Relationship Therapy

Dr. Terracciano starts with the premise that, "intimate love relationships are uniquely magical and joyous arrangements of humans sharing life's journey together". And as ecstatic and delightful as the initial romantic period can be, most couples inevitably experience conflict, hurt and disconnection. In their fumbling efforts to regain vitality and connection, hurt and disconnection can persist or intensify.

As as Certified Imago Relationship Therapist, Dr. Terracciano is talented in helping couples recognize how their conflicts are opportunities for individual and relational growth. By teaching couples how to effectively utilize the Intentional Dialogue — the foundational communication structure in Imago Therapy, couples learn how to disengage from their power struggle, understand each other's unfulfilled desires from a place of curiosity, and replace outdated protective adaptations with new patterns of behavior.

These new ways of behaving promote connection, vitality, mutual respect for one another's experience, and personal transformation. By assisting couples to create their Relationship Vision early on, sessions are focused on mutually agreed upon goals. Stephen teaches couples how to appreciate what is working well, and how to turn arguments into personal discoveries. In addition, as a Board Certified Specialist in Cognitive and Behavior Therapy, Stephen is skilled in helping couples translate the wisdom gained in sessions into actionable practices to benefit their daily lives.

Areas of Specialty & Interest

Some of the topics addressed at Intentional Living, and in which Stephen takes special interest:

  • Diverse and non-conforming couples — when one's relationship departs from conventional models of intimacy
  • Nourishing a mutually satisfying emotional and sexual connection
  • Navigating life-changing decisions
  • Couples in open, or non-exclusive relationships
  • Couples with one or more persons in 12-Step recovery
  • Compromised safety and trust, including affairs, emotional and sexual infidelity
  • The impact of sexual trauma and other posttraumatic stress on relational intimacy

Getting Started

Dr. Terracciano highly recommends attending the "Getting the Love You Want" weekend workshop before, or soon after the initial consultation — where both members of the couple are present. Therapy goals are defined once you and your partner's concerns are discussed, and you will both experience a sample of the Imago Relationship Therapy approach. While couples often begin with weekly meetings, it is not required. Together, we can determine the frequency of meetings that will be most helpful. Sessions are 90-minutes, and while there are no minimum number of sessions required, noticeable improvements are often realized within approximately 12 sessions.

Getting the Love You Want

This is an educational & experiential weekend workshop for couples at all points in relationship. Developed by Drs. Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Founders of Imago Relationship Therapy, the workshop consists of mini lessons with guided demonstrations, guided imagery and reflective writing exercises, and video clips. Couples attending this workshop will:

  • Understand the growth opportunities embedded in relational conflict
  • Learn how their partner selection pattern allows healing from difficult childhood experiences
  • Develop skills in using the Intentional Dialogue tool for constructive communication
  • Learn varied ways of interacting to restore connection and invigorate attraction
  • Create and begin manifesting their Relationship Vision

Dr. Terracciano presents the Getting the Love You Want Workshop with his husband, Dr. Mohan Vinjamuri. As an assistant to the workshop, Mohan brings over 25 years of experience as an educator. He is an Assistant Professor of Social Work at CUNY's Lehman College, and is a dynamic presenter adept at tuning in to his audience to maximize learning. Stephen and Mohan embrace the Imago method, and are eager to teach this approach to couples.

Relevant Training and Experience

Dr. Terracciano received his certification as an Imago Relationship Therapist in 2007. He received some initial training from Harville Hendrix PhD, co-founder and co-developer of Imago Relationship theory and therapy, and has continued extensive clinical training and individual supervision under Imago Master Trainer, Maya Kollman, M.A.

In addition to attending Imago conferences where he has broadened his relationship therapy knowledge and skills, Stephen has completed various Advanced Imago Courses. Eager to expand his reach and offer his services to a wider community, he embarked on Workshop Presenter Training in 2016.

Registration and Fees for "Getting the Love You Want" Couples Workshops

Please contact Intentional Living as fees vary for private in-office relationship therapy and the Getting the Love You Want weekend workshop. See Fees for cancellation and refund policy.

Resources

YouTube Playlist

The following video resources curated by Intentional Living have been made available as playlist — Relationship Therapy

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